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writes:I want to the sweet girl but, I'm know as the girl that has an attitude. I don't mean to be like that but it come out that way. What do you like i need to work on? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2008): It's all been said here...Your awareness is the first step!
Take the advice given you and work on being nicer to people. With practice it will become automatic. And you will feel better about yourself too! But as Oblivia said...don't go too far the other way, You don't want to be a doormat!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2008): At least you realised and want to change, which is the first step. Be aware of the attitude and if you catch yourself doing it, apologise to people and tell them you don't mean to be like that.Good luck in becoming sweet! Lots of us would like to be!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2008): I feel your pain, because i have the same problem... i think we need to control our mouths a bit more and actually think before we speak...just simple things such a smile and complimenting someone and just generally being happy will change the way people think of you x
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reader, Oblivia  +, writes (28 November 2008):
 Just by you asking this makes me think you already are a nice girl inside. Maybe your problem is that you react too fast and kind of get "bitchy"?
If this is how it is (and I know very well how that could happen! ;-I) then I would practise on taking a deep breathe and wait a little before answering or commenting in a situation where you become upset. Give time for the nice part of you to step forward before acting.
Make sure though to not loose your "geist". You don't want to become all nice and always let people walk all over you.
Take care!
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