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How can I build up my confidence so I can ask out this great guy?

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Question - (5 November 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 15 November 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi. Ok here's the scoop. Iv heard from some mates that a really gorgeous, fun guy likes me. I want to ask him out but whats holding me bak is that im out of his league. I am pretty but i get the impression that hes more experienced and will be disapointed. I'm also shy and have a habit of saying the wrong thing. I want to be more confident but it's difficult. I need tips!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2009):

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It's ok. It just turned out to be a sick joke the lads were playing to see what I would do. They wanted to see if I prefered the hot guy over this guy I have loads in common. Think they were trying to break me out of my 'leave it up to them to ask me out' cycle. The only reason I asked this is that I hoped that maybe someone was possibly going to ask me out, and it turned out he wasn't. I'm not going to see either of these guys for a few weeks now so you never know- absense may make the heart grow fonder lol.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2009):

If he really likes you then he is probably going to ask you out, don't you think? So if I were you, I'd just wait for him to ask me. Maybe you could give him subtle hints that you are interested.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2009):

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He's also a bit older than me.

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A female reader, headwreck United Kingdom +, writes (5 November 2009):

You can only really be yourself. Take confidence from the fact that you already know that he like you! That's a great start.

No one is out of anyone's league!

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