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writes: Whats wrong when I do a lot for my boyfriend?Hi I really need your help on this situation. I am 16 and my boyfriend is 18. We have been seeing each other for a year and 6 months. I really love him but the problem is, I do a lot for him but he does not care about the way I feel. We have been through a lot together but it's always what he wants in life, not me. I need some help on how to tell him in a polite way how he really makes me feel. I want him to know how much I love him but not a lot if he keeps not caring about my feelings.Thanx please write back, desperate Kelly xx Reply to this Question
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Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A reader, lacey, writes (3 March 2005): hello! you have the same problem as me. I think that you should stop telling him how much he means to you because by doing that he knows that he can treat you like crap and you're not going to leave him. Stop doing things for him and start doing things for yourself. My partner has made me change my friends and my attitude to life; please don't let yours do that to you. You need to realise that your happiness is as important as his. Back off and he will come running, if he doesn't then he's not worth it. Go have fun!
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