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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I go to the job centre to sign on for jobseeker's allowance. there's this advisor that i've seen twice. i have to see him every few weeks. i didnt feel like i had a crush on him the first time i had to see him, but last time i had an appointment with him, and when i saw him this week, i felt like i did! I've had to see him for follow up interviews, which means he checks to see how my job search is going. i get paid benefits from the government as i am looking for a job. i have a follow up interview for my next appointment here as well, which is in two weeks. i'm really nervous about having to see him again! I feel like i cant talk to him that well and feel quite shy because i have a crush on him but i have to go to my job centre appointments, especially the follow up interviews, or else my benefits will get stopped, and i have to be on benefits in the meantime to get money while i look for a job. How can I block my crush on him out of my mind when i see him ?. I cant remember how it came up in the conversations, but i remember him mentioning that he had kids. I'm not sure if he is married though. when i went in this week, i didnt have an appointment with him, but he was the one who i had to give my details to when i went in, to say that i had arrived for my appointment. usually, you have to hand in your signing booklet, that has your name and national insurance number on it, but i didnt have it with me, and he said he remembered who i was, but i needed to write my details down anyway. i was surprised he remembered me, as loads of people go into the job centre. ok, that might not have meant anything. he might just have a really good memory or i might have a distinctive look lol. how can i get over my nerves about seeing him next time, or even get over the crush altogether ?.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2010): Hi. Thanks for your reply. I'm not sure how to move the conversation into something more personal, without seeming too forward, I'm also not sure if he has a girlfriend or is married. It just doesnt seem like the most appropriate place really, as i'm supposed to just be going there to be discussing jobs lol.
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