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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:How can I bring up the topic of oral with my girlfriend. I've been touching her for months and she's started touching me lately. I just recently started giving her oral but she hasn't made any move to try it on me. I don't want to make it sound like I want it cause i don't want her to feel like she has to but at the same time, i'd like to at least find out her opinion. How can i bring it up and maybe get her to consider it? Reply to this Question
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reader, liveforfiona  +, writes (6 October 2008):
My ex boyfriend did this to me and it was smart and subtle and aroused conversation and the sharing of opinions.We're both young and obviously our friends are too. He mentioned something about a friend of ours giving a random guy head for $50. This sparked conversation. I told him that asking a girl out right for oral, especially with the offer of paying, is degrading unless you are and have been in a solid and serious relationship. Something like that maybe a good idea but how ever don't over do it unless you know the event happened for a fact. If nothing along those lines has happened just say "my friend was telling me that...." Just appreciate her opinion and don't try to force your opinion and thoughts onto her, she has her own mind and if she doesn't want to give you oral, she wont.
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