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writes:How can I be sure that he will come for me. He is married lives 2,000 away...with a son of 16...he is waiting for the son to go to college before we can be together. He phones when he can...emailing has stopped because his wife has now got access to his secret email account. He says he loves me...I defo love him. I am married, but very unhappy and we met up by accident 2 years ago and have been in constant touch since, as well as meeting up and making plans for the future. I just have doubt that he will keep to his word, leave his wife when the time is right and we live happily ever after. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2011): thank you for your advice...i appreciate it..i feel so alone in this, wrong as it is, he has always had aplace in my heart. i never thought life would bring us back together again by accident. It was a cruel twist of fate that seperated us in the first place many years ago. I just have always secretly hoped he'd come back, but got on with my life, as you do, never ever thinking he would.
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reader, dougbcoll  +, writes (19 September 2011):
 he is married , you are married. that is two relationships built on mistrust. building a relationship is going to be on very little foundation of trust ,and commitment. your unhappy in your marriage, is he unhappy in his?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2011): Sorry but he won't show up.
Start cutting contact with him. I he was going to make the move he would have. People that are in a relationship and make the choice for the other do this normaly in the first 3-6 months. That hasn't happend.
I'm in the same boat. Sorry they simply don't
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2011): If he's still married, then you can't be sure of anything.
until he leaves his wife, there are no guarantees.
if he really loved you he would have made the difficult decision and left his marriage.
his wife now has access to his secret email account so he stopped emailing you? that's so pathetic. he's like a naughty little boy who got caught and is now behaving.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (19 September 2011):
 Those are good doubts to have.... since they are realistic in the face of the odds of about 99 to 1 that your married B/F will ever really follow through and "....that he will come for me."
Good luck....
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2011): Sorry but forget it. The fact that you think you will live happily ever after says it all. There is no such thing. I think you should focus on yourself. If you are so unhappy in your marriage, get out, but get out for yourself, not for someone else.
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