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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:dear cupid....well everytime im talkin to a boy i can neva seem to start a conversation wit them....nd it aggravates me wen boys say im quiet,shy and not very outgoing.....how can i change dat and stop being so shy?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2007): i agree with i might be a girl but i can help - you should deffinatly just see them as equals. putting a guy up on a pedistal and trying to impress them is too much pressure on yourself. they're just like everybody else, except they might be a little dumber. but thats not the point. if you feel like you're lower than them, then you'll try to hard. if you think of them as just another one of your girlfriends, you'll have no problem being yourself, which i am sure is very charming.
and i'm sure you'll realize that the guys are probably having trouble being able to talk to you.
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reader, i might be a girl but i can help  +, writes (18 August 2007):
 well think of them as an equal. they is know particular way to be more confinident round boys, just be yourself, get to know what they like, talk to them, do't be nevious. meet up with boys and enjoy yourself.
oh and don't worry
good luck
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