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writes:Alright my ex and I have been broken up for 1.5 years she broke up with me, We remained contact throughout and two weeks ago, I couldn't stand her anymore. I told her "i don't want to talk to you ever again" and a bunch of stuff. And right before my graduation I received a text from her saying "i know you won't respond to this because you hate me...but I still consider you an important person in my life and I just want to say congratulations on graduating even though ill be there. best of luck in all you do in life.I honestly would like to date her again but I'm so sick of her crap whenever I try to "talk" about "us" again. Every time when I try I get " I just don't know :/"How am I "considered important to her" if we've been broken up for 1.5 years?But yeah advice would be great. Thank you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2011): If she wanted to get back together, she'd have said so. As long as you have hope of reconcilation she has the security of having you around and being special to you without making a big committment. She can't give you that hope without outright lying or agreeing to a relationship she doesn't want, so the only thing left to her is to be evasive. Hence the 'I don't know'.When people say 'I don't know' in this context what they usually mean is 'I DO know, but I'm afraid to tell you in case you get angry.'I believe she wants to remain friends. Nothing more.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2011): Well, women are all crazy you just need to find the kind of crazy you can handle. Most of the men I have dated are important to me. I have remained friends with quite a few. I have been told I am the good kind of crazy. Your girl sounds like she is over you, because that is what I would tell my ex's when they wanted to have the 'us' talk. Yet they remained special to me. I have learned something important from each one. Whether it is an appreciation for a different kind of music or how to do my own breaks. On a daily basis I think of the ones I have kept as friends. I hope this helps.
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