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How can I avoid lockjaw with my new boyfriend?

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Question - (12 October 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 12 October 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I'm quite inexperienced with sex and I've recently met an amazing guy and I absolutely love spending time in and out of bed with him but I've hit a problem when giving blow jobs. Every guy I've ever been with before has been a bit small in the trouser department and has come pretty quickly but my new guy is very long and wide and takes a bit longer and I find myself getting horrible jaw pain within a few minutes of starting. He spends ages going down on me and has given me multiple orgasms quite a few times and I would really like to return the favour by giving him at least one. I wondered if anyone could give me any tips as to how to avoid lockjaw or keep going through the pain. I don't think there is a technique problem as he always enjoys it when I am doing it.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2008):

Well I dnt mean to be to explicit...but if you think that he is big then I suggest that you only suck very hard on the head of the penis if you feel that the whole thing is just to much to bear...and everynow and then lick it up and down and suck on his balls and lick back up to the head and begin sucking on it again...try and deepthroat once you feel comfortable enough to not think that you are going to get lockjaw.

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A female reader, aunty_rach United Kingdom +, writes (12 October 2008):

well from my experience of "big boys" the best thing to do is only out the first few inches into your mouth then with a hand or both hand grasp the rest of the penis and stroke him while u suck,lick the top. this way he gets all the pleasure and you don't suffer from lock jaw. also lick up and down his shaft, so you add abit of moisture to his penis, so when it comes to rubbing it with your hands it feels like you are sucking the whole thing, rather then just the top. remember men are very visual, so make sure that you look like you are enjoying giving him a blow job! hope it helps.

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