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writes:Me and my girlfriend of 7 months broke up about a month and a week ago. Anyways, the breakup wasn't messy, and I am still good friends with her stepfather and her mother. I wrote her a text and called here about a week after the breakup but to no response(she said she wanted to remain friends) Also, she said to me, I asked her if I ever had another chance with her, she said she doesn't know what will happen in the future. I let it go, and decided not to contact her again. I did however buy her a gift for her housewarming party and left it for her with her stepfather, oh which she emailed me saying thanks. Heres my question, she has me on her top friends on her myspace still, and I have a profile tracker thing, almost daily, espcially when I update my profile, she views my page. It throws me for a loop everytime, I really wanna write her to see how she is, but dont wanna bother her, and I dont want to look desperate, what do you guys think? She has not dated anyone since, and me either.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2008): You have a myspace profile tracker...???that works??? Anywho...she probably really likes you and wants to make sure that you don't have a new girl in your life...well that's the reason why I'd do it(:
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reader, aunty_rach  +, writes (12 October 2008):
i still look at my ex bf's social pages, but it's not because i am interested in getting back with them, it;s just because apart of me likes to be nosey and see what they get up to or who they are dating. it's just a girl thing. the best thing you can do is give her space and if she wants you back, she will tell you. but don't push it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2008): If you still have feelings for her, you have to tell her. But the fact that she doesn't respond to you does pose a problem. Maybe she thinks that she has to stay away from you to move on? But either way you should tell her how you feel. You said you were good friends with her step father? I would talk to him about it and ask him if he thinks its okay to try and talk to her. If so maybe he can help you out?
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2008): I know you asked for a guy's point of view, but women know women. Give her some time to cool off. Stay friendly. Call her in a few weeks...just as a friend. Be nice, don't beg...just yet.
Women like to feel appreciated. Find something that she did for you in the past, and tell her how special that was to you...and how you've missed that in your life.
It will be her decision whether to take you back or not. Make sure she does not see you with other girls during this time, if you really want her back.
Good luck and I am pulling for you.
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reader, dearkelja +, writes (12 October 2008):
 Give her some time to figure out what she wants. It could be she is missing you as anyone does when they break up. She may not be as responsive to you because perhaps she doesn't want to lead you on. Give her a few weeks and then maybe call her and ask her out for coffee to catch up as friends.
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