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writes:How can i ask this man out ?. He is much older than myself. I know that he used to go out on Wednesdays and Sundays and there are two places that i know he likes to go in, an i know roughly what time he went out on those days. I haven't seen him much recently, as i haven't been out much . I saw him last week, but he wasn't in the bar where i was for long ,so i didn't get to speak to him that much . He told me that it was nice to see me again, and i have heard that he likes me. My friends don't like going out drinking all that much, so it's embarrassing to say, but i might have to go out on my own on either a Wednesday or a Sunday to look for him, but even then i would have to look in the right place at the right time, and what if he isn't there lol ?. I don't really like going to bars on my own though, but i guess that's what i would have to do ?. If only i had his phone number lol. Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (6 December 2011):
 I wouldn't just turn up to a bar on your own in hope that you might bump in to him, this might leave him a bit frightened that you are some sort of stalker. Tell your friends about how you feel about this man, and ask them to help you out by going with you, if they are friends and they know the reason you are going am sure they will want to help you out. If it is meant to be then it is meant to be, but don't go around searching the place for him. It might put him off slightly.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2011): Hi! perhaps you could just drag your friends out, if you really didn't want to go alone? But honestly i would just go in there and ask him straight out, don't worry about messing around. If he says no, then he says no, and you're not then thinking about what could have been. Most men i know would rather a woman just go up to them and ask them rather than playing games, so i would just go for it. If you're too worried though, do you have facebook? perhaps add him on there, and then you can perhaps do it more subtly. Either way, best of luck! :-))
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