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How can I ask her out as a friend without scaring her off?

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Question - (23 January 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 23 January 2007)
A , anonymous writes:

i met this girl once went all my mates went out she came as well. we got on well. later she added me on msn and than asked for my number. she made me swear I'll text her back. i want to take her out but we've only met once but talked a lot on-line. how can i ask her? i don't see her around. how can i ask her out as a friend without scaring her off? just so i can know her more? thanks a lot

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A female reader, Belle*En*Noire United States +, writes (23 January 2007):

Belle*En*Noire agony auntu should just ask her, im sure shell say yes.

u shouldnt be so nervous bcuz most ppl wont think it weird, theyll b flattered!

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A female reader, Amethyst United States +, writes (23 January 2007):

Amethyst agony auntWell, my suggestion is one day during an online chat you mention going to a movie or something and ask her if she'd like to come along. Be casual about it, the more nervous you act, the more she'll think "Oh my goodness... he's asking me out!" If she says no, or she can't, simply say, "Oh, well ok. No problem!" then wait a week or so before offering it again. Hope all goes well, and I'm sure it will! :)

Good luck!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2007):

Just ask her out, she wants you too from the sounds of it and you have to risk rejection if you are going to date women....so just ask her and go from there, but have a great date planned in case she says yes!

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