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30-35,
anonymous
writes:so my boyfriend and i have sex very often. the weird thing is i always orgasm and he can't. he can last for hours but yet he still doesn't orgasm. he loves to please me. don't get me wrong, i please him A LOT too. but sometimes its over an hour and a half and he and i are both tired. we have tried a lot of foreplay before sex but that doesn't work. we also tried not having sex for weeks and that still didn't help. i don't know if it is him or me. i think i am doing something wrong... please help!
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reader, MikeEa1  +, writes (26 January 2011):
 I have a similar problem and I thought it was unusual. Sometimes I can come quickly (within 20 minutes) and a lot of the time even though I really enjoy sex I can't come. It is frustrating but usually when I can't come the sex is most intense in terms of being close to the woman. Maybe a quick handjob afterwards or if he's happy just go with the flow.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2011): Recently I read a long article about cocaine and the article mentioned that cocaine use does not prevent an erection, but can prevent the man from reaching orgasm, even if that is what he wants to happen. Can cause great frustration in the man, because no matter what, the mechanism refuses to happen. Just a thought, though I suspect you would know if he used it or not?
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