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writes:Hi, I have been friends with a guy for 5 years, he says he loves me but I find it hard to believe him coz he seems to be interested in sex. What should I do
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2014): Please clarify your post.
Is your guy uninterested in sex? Is he your boyfriend?
The moderators may have made an error in the title of your post!
I can't tell what country you're from by your flag. It may be his religious values. If you used to have sex, and it has stopped; accept that he is no longer sexually- attracted to you. Maybe he never was.
Decide whether it is time for you to end this relationship to start dating other men.
Are you sure he isn't gay?
You should have figured things out for yourself by now. You're not married to him. He can love you without wanting sex with you. I think this is a case where you're pressuring a friend to have a romantic relationship with you. He doesn't want to, but you're insisting on it.
Sounds like you wouldn't take "no: for an answer, if you've been his friend for five years.
If you want more, find a guy who wants a relationship which includes sex.
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