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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I am completely confused...This guy and I were friends for over a year and seemed to develop a strong attraction to one another. So after trying to fight it, we gave into our urges and had sex a few times. It intense and exciting each time. He even relayed that he had "feelings" for me. We continued to talk until about 3 weeks ago whe almost all communication stopped. We really shouldn't be together sexually because he teaches my son and I am separated but not divorced. Rumors began and we had to stop communication. I miss him and last week we did talk on the phone but not about "us" only about school and my son. When I sent him a text the next day I just came out and asked if he wanted to "hang out" that day, and he replied, "Sorry, I can't today". I saw him last night at a school function and my "husband" was there as well. "Teacher" came right over to us to say hello to my son. Then he proceeded to stand in close vicinity all night at the carnival...but did not talk to me directly. He did go out of his way to talk to my son. I am wondering how he can just shut off the feelings he supposably had for me and I guess I am wondering if there is any chance for the two of us to be together again. He was my son's teacher last year, but is no longer his teacher. Is there anything I can do to get him to want to be with me again? I miss him.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (21 September 2009):
If he's a teacher at your son's school, he might be protecting himself. All I can suggest is tryong one last time to speak to him. If not, you'll have to move on. Best wishes.
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