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*ovesucks1234
writes:Okay well this is how everything works. Either yu agree with me or yu don't. Well I broke up with my boyfriend that I'm deeply in love with. But I made sure he knew that it was just a break like to get my thoughts together. Not forever. But after a few days I kissed someone else. Just because my boyfriend wa my first kiss and so I wanted to know what it felt like to kiss someone else. But when I kissed the other guy I relized I love my boyfriend alott more. So I text my bf and find out after 2 days he already has another gf. Idk but I was pissed. I was freaking out. I know we broke up. But not to see other ppl. I know o kissed another guy but it wa innocent he did this on purpose. And idk I'm really upset about it. Should I date the other guy I kissed or go for the guy who had another gf within an hour? Because I like them both. But I'm in love with my ex. Btw me an my ex dated 2 1/2 months. I mean he said he loved me and cared about me but know I don't think he ever did I think he might Even have cheated on me but yet he's not really like that. I'm just so depressed because in those two months we spent so much time together. And i just wanted a break because I was scared of getting hurt. I just needed to think. Not for him to date other girls.
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reader, Lovesucks1234 +, writes (20 December 2009):
Lovesucks1234 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Well since it didn't discrive much of his character I'll suppliy that info.
First off he's a jeliouse type. He was verry protective of me. And he's a skateboarder almost everyday he'd go and skate. He's not very athletic I mean for sports as a team. He usually takes forever to get over girls that what I don't understand. He's load and out spoken. An all around nice guy.
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (20 December 2009):
 HMM well im a guy and i can tell you at 14 guys dont understand breaks, even as we get older we dont under stand women very well something gets lost in translation. The thing is your playing with this guys emotions im gonna tell you whats wrong, basically you confused the hell out of the kid hes probably quite pissed at you. He told you he loved you and you tell him you need a break. You have learned a valuable lesson boys are not shoes you can borrow and try on diffrent ones and see if you like them or not there human beings with something called feelings. Its understandable that you wanted to try another guy to see if the guy your with is really the one and all that but thats not how it works any way your young and entitled to make mistakes. next time you have a bf just try sticking it out with him for awhile and see where it goes. Now you can go to your ex and basically tell him exactly what you wrote in here you can leave a few things out but give him the basics i suggest a letter hand written an ability we humans are slowly loosing, letters are good cuse guys can read and when you talk to them its like blah blah blah etc after a few seconds, or you can forget about him hes not the guy your gonna marry more then likely in ten years when you see him you will be like what was i thinking, you wont believe you where actually in love with him choice is your good luck
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