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Am I masterbating right?

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Question - (20 December 2009) 6 Answers - (Newest, 23 December 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, *irdy writes:

I am 13 years old and i masturbate but i don't know whether im doing it right, and i have trouble getting aroused and in the mood for it. any tips for me on how to do it? how to get myself ready for it and pleasure myself properly? please help, thank-you :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2009):

well im 14 and i do it like idk i use pillows. i think i orgasm but im not sure. i only do it when i am watching tv and something hot comes up. sometimes i dont do it tho. haha.

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A female reader, Girdy United Kingdom +, writes (20 December 2009):

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Thank-you for all of your advice everybody :)

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A female reader, Angzw Zimbabwe +, writes (20 December 2009):

when a person decides to masturbate, it is usually because they feel aroused. But maybe you could start off by reading a racy novel with a sexy romantic scene and see if that gets you going. Then after that you do whatever feels right for you. Some girls just squeeze their legs together, others feel they need to rub their clitoris/nipples etc. Its different from person to person. But I would say avoid excessive rubbing of clitoris because this may desensitize you in the long run and might affect your ability to have orgasms quickly later.

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A female reader, Libra1963  +, writes (20 December 2009):

Libra1963 agony auntDo what your body tells you to. Everyone is different and have different ways of doing things.

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A female reader, Libra1963  +, writes (20 December 2009):

Libra1963 agony auntDo what your body tells you to. Everyone is different and have different ways of doing things.

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A male reader, RAINORFIRE United States +, writes (20 December 2009):

RAINORFIRE agony auntI could be wrong but i think the point of masturbating is because your allready aroused and need a release. ANY WAYS im not going to tell you but since you have internet access im sure you can use google to find what you need i would tell but it just feels so so wrong my standards are low but hey atleast i got some but i will suggest not doing anything no touchng anywhere for two weeks and see what happens.

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