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writes:ok i have a question...my friend introduced me to a girl I fell in love with almost immediately and she wants to to take it to the next leveland have sex.... We have known each other for three years now and I want to. but my parents don't understand how i feel and my parents are hard to talk to about this kind of stuff. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThe only thing is her dad is a cop and knows she has had sex before we met and she is 17 years old and her dad doesnt mind her having sex.. what do i do?
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reader, Sincerely Yours +, writes (20 December 2009):
 Falling in love immediately can't really happen because so much of love is learning everything about the person, both bad and good and accepting them all, realizing that the relationship isn't perfect and appreciating those imperfections, living with that person through think and thin, hard and easy and still being there for each other in the end. It's hard work, not just a warm feeling. So I'd say, that since you have said that you "fell in love almost immediately" you are not at the right point of life experience to make really big decision, and that's exactly what having sex is. You are mature enough to ask around because you're not sure of your own judgement, so I believe you can handle this decision.
~Sy
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (20 December 2009):
 Much like "RAINORFIRE" my best advice is for you to avoid sexual intercourse under any circumstances until you are of legal age in your state, but you can still have some fun with mutual masturbation, lots of foreplay and possibly some oral enjoyment without breaking the law or becoming a teenage daddy.
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (20 December 2009):
 AWW as badly as i want to tell you to go for it i really do im gonna do my older guy duty and tell you to think about maybe not doing it i dont kno how old you or the girl is but theres a thing called age of consent so basically its illegal to have sex if your under the age of 16 that aplies to you because your a yankee in some places its awkwardly lower . What if this girl gets pregnant. what if she gets mad at you and says you raped her. or what if you get something you cant even spell and need a huge needle to get rid of.
If you have sex use a condom, make sure the girl isnt having sex with anyone else and good luck
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