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writes:I have had a lot of problems with a girl which im starting to think i was dumb to ever try to have a relationship with. Well she keeps going back to her ex even tho its so easy to tell that he doesnt care about her. Well he got her pregnant and she is 9 weeks pregnant now and he took of on her by packing all his stuff in his van and left her. Well it seems that she has went back to him again after he did this. I just dont understand her thoughts anymore, how can you go back to someone who left you for dead with his unborn child in you. Especially when theres someone who wouldnt do any of this to you. Well basically my question is well why do some wemon go back to guys like him, and is there anyway to make her wise up to the fact that he doesnt care before it is to late. Its like all her friends and family realize this but she doesnt. And they have all tried to get her to realize how stupid she is being hurting me over and over again for someone who couldnt care less about her. But to no avail she says that she knows he doesnt care but she keeps going back to him. Which makes me think she is just making herself blind and def to that which she doesnt want to believe. And im so sick of being hurt by her when i wouldnt do any of ths to her and she knows this to be a fact. But she wont stop being well dumb... Hell i would rather see her with anyone then him at our school even if it wasnt me. so is there anyway to make her wise up and hy do wemon do this...
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reader, faith scott boreanaz  +, writes (9 January 2008):
 a couple of years ago, when i was very impressionable and gullable, i was like your girlfriend. i started dating this guy, B, but i was still in contact with my ex, A, when B dumped me it was a big wake up call - i realised what i wanted in a guy and started thinking straight (thank god)
when b dumped me he had said "I love you faith, but you keep hurting me by running to A all the time! I need a break from you faith, if you still want him in your life in a couple of days then its over permanently"
i realised how much i loved B and have had no contact with A since.
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (9 January 2008):
 If she is still pregnant, she is tied in a way to this jerk and I'm sure that being hormonal doesn't help matters. She probably wants to "work things out for the sake of the baby". I know that it doesn't make much sense to you, I'm quite sure that it doesn't make very much very much sense to her either. You can't really change her or make her see the error of her ways, but you can probably help her through the inevitable fallout from all of this if things don't work out.
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