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writes:Hi. Me and my boyfriend have been together about 6 - 7 weeks and he's upset me tonight. He was being really weird on the phone with me - not talking much, being really quiet and he didn't say love you when I went and he always does. But when I met up with him he was fine with me - all over me, we were kissing and cuddling and laughing. It was all fine. Then we went somewhere else and his cousin and some other of his mates were there. His ex gf from a while back walked past and he said to her "are you back with that lad" and she said no and then he said "oh you can sit on top of me then".. right in front of me. All his mates were laughing and i felt like a real plonker.. He's supposed to be my boyfriend! Later on even if I looked at him for a couple of seconds he'd shout what? in a real loud voice and he'd always tell me to get off him and that I followed him round like a sheep. It's started to make me paranoid now cos I think I'm too clingy.. or is it him jus being moody?.. :SWhen hes in a good mood he's all over me and we're fine with each other and it's amazing but when he's in a bad mood he thinks I'm clingy. Anyway he walked me to the bus stop and there was no one else there. He started kissing me and pretended everything was okay.. I asked him if he still wanted to be with me and he said obviously and started kissing me.. I'm really confused and I don't know if its because I'm 13 and he's 16 and he thinks his friends laugh at him because of it.. but he does like me? I don't know.. What do you think I should do? x Kady x
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reader, dearkelja  +, writes (9 January 2008):
 The way you can tell how much a guy likes you is by how he reacts to you when he is with his friends. The fact that he is downright rude to you tells me he is not comfortable with his feelings. He was also disrespectful towards you by telling his ex to sit on him.
Yeah, I agree that 16 is young to be mature about a relationship but there is mature and then there is disrespectful and rude. He doesn't sound as if he is worthy of your attention. There are plenty of guys who will treat you better. Show him, move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2008): I think that both of you are very young, and sadly enough, no relationships are very serious at that age. He sounds to me like a typical teenage boy who keeps you around for when he's bored or lonely, but is really frustrated by how "clingy" you come across to him. He doesn't want a relationship, he wants someone who he can call up when he wants.
Also, telling anyone you love them after 6 or 7 weeks is one way to scare anyone off, no matter what age! Take thigns slowly girl, you've got a long road ahead to fall in love with some guy thats worth it :) I think you should focus on becoming the independent girl who plays the guys at your age, and doesn't sit around getting used by a few.
Good luck honey, and ditch that boy before he makes a fool out of you in front of everyone!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (9 January 2008):
 I don't think he is serious with you . He is flirting with any girls that come within his range for that matter. He is like a playboy.He knows you like him and takes you for granted.He sweet talks a lot .If he likes you he would not do those mean things to you in front of his buddies.
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