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writes:Hi I've just started my 2nd year at uni and there's a girl, where one of my friends lives near, who also goes to the same uni as me and similar student bars. I'm not joking she is utterly beautiful, stunning hot etc. and my friends says she is smart and friendly. There's just one problem, I'm a bit of a nerd/loser type person. Should I ask her out and can anyone give me some advice as to what to say to her when asking her out? Reply to this Question
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reader, bonym +, writes (23 September 2006):
 Friend, stop the self destruction, "as a man thinks in his heart, so is he" thats what the Word says. If you think you are a loser, you will be one, but friend, I am not happy to allow you to degrade yourself like that, dont speak so badly of yourself. Why do you think you are not good enough for her? Whats wrong with you, she may really like you, dont be so harsh on yourself, ok? You will never know until you ask her. Good luck. xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2006): I'd be interested to know why you see yourself as a nerd and as a loser. Can you go in to more detail?
But whilst you see yourself this way, you will never get the heart of a girl, especially not a stunner.
You need to find yourself, before you can find someone else.
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reader, Toria +, writes (22 September 2006):
 I would go for it she can only say no and if she does you can move on from this, rejection isn't a nice feeling but we all learn from it and there is always the 50/50 chance that she might say yes and if you don't say something you will never know and could be missing out on something really good, there is no reason why just because you are what you say a nerd that she wouldn't be interested in you, you may be surprised, just ask her if she fancies meeting up for a few drinks and just take it from there, you should be able to suss from the way she is with you whether it is then worth asking again.
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