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How can a guy change his mind on a daily basis?

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Question - (19 January 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 20 January 2011)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

How in the world do I understand this man? I have been fooling around with a younger man for almost a year now. He told me recently that he doesn't want an emotional relationship with me. That made me laugh out loud!

This guy is sensitive, emotional, sweet and says all the "right" things. I am not sure if he is doing this intentionally or not. I guess he doesn't mean what he says or maybe today he means it and tomorrow not so much. His signals say he is very into me but then he comes up with something to make sure I don't keep falling for him. It's pure craziness. He changes his mind on a daily basis. So now we are both putting on the brakes. There is much more to this story. But, it would take all day to tell, lol.

Roller coaster ride for sure. My question is "what does it mean when a guy says one thing, does another and changes his mind daily"

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2011):

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We are only FWB. That's the way he wants it. That's the way it has to be. So we just enjoy the moments.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2011):

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Well maybe I do enjoy the moments he is sweet, kind and sensitive. Maybe, I should just leave it at that and not fantasize about anything more. I have to stop trying to figure him out and just live in the moment, then go back to my "real" life.

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A male reader, spnwinchester Australia +, writes (19 January 2011):

Well maybe he just enjoys being sweet, kind and sensitive to you whilst having sex, but just doesn't want to be tied down with anybody.

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