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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2008): Be honest and truthful and to the point, dont beat about the bush. If you must finish then do it now rather than later and in the future she will thank you for it, but for now, expect some major upset.
take care
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (4 June 2008):
 Good luck Buddy, we all go through this at some point either as the breakER or the BreakEE. Things work out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOk thank you eyeswideopen, I will do my best to make this as painless as possible for her
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (4 June 2008):
What I mean is don't leave her thinking that this is just a temporary separation and that there's a chance of you guys getting back together. That makes it very hard to move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioneyeswideopen, could you better explain what you mean by "false hopes"?
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (4 June 2008):
Just make sure you make a clean break, don't give her any false hopes that really causes pain and a slower healing process. Like removing a bandaid the quicker the better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2008): I like the way you said that. Tell her just that and things will be ok.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2008): Tell her the truth!
What you just said was very nice.
Good Luck. x
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