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writes:hi, what is the best way to break up with a person? iv been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 2 years and i am very unhappy and i also beleave he has been having a relationship with another women, i have confronted him about this yet i dont get any answers or explanations about the matter, he is always putting me down and making me feel like im a bad person, we live together and some of the bills are in his name and some are in mine,whats the best plan to get out of the relationship wihtout ending up with no money?
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (23 January 2006):
 Unfortunately there is very little legal recourse when two unmarried people live together and share finances. Try to figure out the amounts that belong to only you and those that belong to only him. Then split the shared ones down the middle. Hopefully you can get out of this with as little financial pain as possible. Good luck.
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reader, mommyofthree +, writes (23 January 2006):
 That is a tough one, it is hard to predict how someone will react in this type of situation. He may go out of his way to make sure you get screwed. I am hoping that the things in your name are the things you hold near and dear to you. If you are going to leave him, I would call all of the things in my name and switch the billing adress to wherever you are moving to. Also, if you have direct deposit with your job, stop it immediately, and if you have a joint bank accoutn take your money and start a new one, with out him on it. Be smart and fair and hopefully he will to. Good luck.
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