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writes:im 13 and have just got back from holiday ..on holiday i met this guy ..he didnt really seem my type at first but then we got talking and i realised he was so nicewe spent i spent the whole holiday with him from 12 in the afternoon till 1 at night ..i really liked him and he had something for me too ..but the only problem he is 16 and lives miles away from me but i cant get him off my mind. Nothing happened between us on holiday but i just really regret not making a move .. but then to top it off back home before the holiday i was seeing someone and now i feel like i am stringing him along since he told me he was in love with me !please help !!!
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reader, Honest_Answers +, writes (19 August 2009):
 Reading your problem made me feel like I was reading my diary a few years ago. Holiday romances are lovely and I'm so proud of you that you didn't make a move. You've acted very sensibly as if you had made a move on your holiday romance would you not have felt worse about the guy you have back home? Meeting someone and having a connection with them is lovely but here's what I think you should do.
1. Keep in contact with your holiday romance, add him on facebook or text him or whatever but treat it as a friendship more than anything else. Long term relationships rarely work when you can afford to see the other person every weekend but if you like talking to him and he makes you laugh it's nice to have these people around. Don't try and make it into anything though.
2. Sort out your guy back home - this darling you've been seeing is in love with you! You're very lucky sweetheart! But if you don't like him very much then it's cruel to let him think you're an item in any way. You don't have to tell him about the lad on holiday just explain that you don't want to see him anymore - difficult being a heartbreaker but it sounds like you're a very popular girl so it's better to become accustomed to dealing with these things now.
Good luck with it all but honey you seem just fine. You've made excellent choices and are obviously gorgeous so just keep going as you are!
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