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writes:I realy love my boyfriend but he likes to flirt with other girls such as a jealous gal called Ruby(COW)I wish there was a way to make him notice me again. Is there a way to get him to notice me? But what i realy want to know is does he LOVE me and NOT Ruby? please help.Emma
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reader, This_face  +, writes (26 October 2008):
If I were you I'd speak to your boyfriend in a calm way. Maybe he doesn't know you are hurt by his flirting. Some people see flirting as harmless or overly tempting. If it bothers you that much and he isn't willing to change maybe he isn't the one for you. You sound hurt by his actions, and so you are not happy. You should be happy by your boyfriend and be comfortable with his actions. As you are not, I don't think he is worth it. After all, you are his girlfriend and if he wants Ruby he should make up his mind! Sometimes people at a younger age change their minds about who they like or want to go out with, and so maybe he is in the middle of changing his mind. It's sad, but I think you need to talk it over with him and maybe leave him if he isn't what you want. You are young and you'll have lots of guys in the future I bet; hopefully those guys will know how to respect you and not get distracted. For the time being, take a moment to think about what exactly you want and to talk to your boyfriend about Ruby.
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reader, Miss Karma Louise +, writes (26 October 2008):
okey dokey.
first of all that ruby girl is making a fool out of herself. because she knows,he knows and you know that he's with you and not with her. maybe its your turn to start making ruby jelouse by giving him a cuddle and a snog infront of her tell him he's great and he means alot to you.
just remember honey he is with you!! not her.
next time just smile and remember it!#
if he loved her he'd be with her!!? yeah?
xx
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