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His no sex attitude is tearing me apart...

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Question - (11 March 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 6 April 2010)
A female United States age , *.A LATINA writes:

I'm living with my boyfreind and I'm not happy. I love him and I'm trying to deal with the no sex thing he thinks a relationship is better as a companion. Don't get me wrong, we do it every day, like 3 months and I'm not happy with that at all. I can't seem to get through to him, we argue a lot and about things but I think it has a lot to do with me feeling that I'm not getting the affection every woman needs... I know he aint cheating, we do everything together every minute. Taking care of things we need to. Every time we talk about the no sex situation it seems to be every excuse in the book. I don't know what to do any more, I told him we should just go our own ways and he says do you really think the no sex thing will make you break up with me? I told him yes and it seems like he doesn't care. I would try for him but I don't see him trying for me. My heart is broken.

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A female reader, L.A LATINA United States +, writes (6 April 2010):

L.A LATINA is verified as being by the original poster of the question

L.A LATINA agony auntIm sorry i just relize that its said wrong . He has not touch me for 3 months and its going on for now he says its because of me . but i tell him i dont have the problem he does.

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A female reader, Miamine United Kingdom +, writes (11 March 2010):

Miamine agony auntConfused, you say you have sex everyday for 3 months, and then what happens? What is this no sex thing?

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A female reader, kayla20 United Kingdom +, writes (11 March 2010):

kayla20 agony auntif the no sex thing is both of your ideas then it was a mutual agreement which is fine although you dont seem so pleased with the idea if you want to have sex and he doesnt why not ask him why he doesnt want sex also you need to explain to him that you dont feel u are receiving the affection you deserve and although sex isnt everything it does play a part in a relationship and you need some sort of intamacy to feel a sense of love.a relationship is all to do with balance and if you cant meet half way then there isnt much hope you need to talk to him

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A female reader, Daisy Doo  United Kingdom +, writes (11 March 2010):

Daisy Doo  agony auntI say that if your not happy why stay in a relationship when you only put effort in?! it needs to be even.but keep in mind that if you realy love him and he realy loves you sex isent the main thing in life. x

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