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female
age
26-29,
*ritelyso
writes:This may seem stupid but it really has become an obsession for me…For the whole month I've been crushing on this guy in my class. We were kind of close before the vacation and during the vacation we would facebook message each other. I slowly fell for him and now I think about him ALL the time. After school started, he's been ignoring me for some reason. Normally he used to come up and talk to me but now even when I talk to him he either ignores me or answers indifferently. Although we don't talk anymore, sometimes I catch him staring at me from across the class and when my friends and I are talking he walks up to us and talks to THEM ignoring me but always touches me slightly. I know this whole thing is stupid but these mixed signals are killing me and I'm really really sad all the time when I think of how he's friendly with every girl but me. I can't even focus on school work anymore please help me get over this obsession!
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reader, lifeSaparty  +, writes (25 June 2014):
 If a boy talks to you on Facebook he is lame and had no game whatsoever
This boy sounds like he's playing you my suggestion is ignore him if tries to brush past you move away and start talking to somebody else. He's not worth your time don't waste your breath on him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2014): Sometimes when stupid boys do what you described; they do like you, but they're holding out for somebody else they like.
They want to keep you on hold, while waiting to see if another girl they like becomes available; or he's working up the nerve to approach her.
Meanwhile; he only messages you on Facebook. Never asked you out, never comes over; or never approaches you publicly or around his friends. He doesn't want anyone else to know that he fancies you. Just you.
If he has stopped messaging you, ignore him. He is playing with your feelings and making you look foolish. Start checking out other boys. Don't let guys contact you in secret like they're ashamed for anyone to know. That is disrespectful to your feelings, and wasting your precious time.
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