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*erenityjohnson
writes:I am a curious about this man i have been talking too, he is finalizing his divorce, and he has three kids, and he lives with his girlfriend whom does not treat him right, he caters to her and she just doesn't treat him right, with us talking and stuff he puts in out there that he doesn't want to keep putting himself in the situation he is in with her, she doesn't want to better her life, i am just curious if i could take him away from her, i have told him and he has agreed, the only problem is that we have a 18 year age difference, and i haven't moved out yet but will next please, and i am thinking that maybe then that we came become closer....so is this possible or would i be wasting my time.....please help, my mind is in all kinds of directions about this!!
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reader, bubbloo24  +, writes (13 July 2008):
 I agree with LazyGuy.
Well, let's face it, this guy doesn't seem to have a very good track record with women does he?
I see that you repeat the fact that "his girlfriend doesn't treat him right". Do you have an evidence of this? Or atleast an example? Have you heard the other side of the story?
This phrase that you've used twice, it would seem to me are his words coming out of your mouth. I think you like him so much that you're accepting everything that he says to be true and trying to avoid the fact that he is a cheater.
I'm sorry hun, but he will not change for you. A wife and kids didn't keep him from cheating so what chance do you stand as his girlfriend? Probably about as much chance as the girl he's with now.
Please, don't get wound up with this guy, I've been with someone who's cheated in past relationships thinking he'd change for me, but hun, they never do.
Take care xx
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (13 July 2008):
 Okay, so you are after a man old enough to be your father, who is already deserting one wife and three kids, is living with another woman before the divorce has even been settled and you want him to cheat on her too which he has agreed to do.
And you wonder, is this going to work out.
You say his current gf doesn't treat him right. As opposed to him who is complaining about it to you rather then make it work. He is CHEAT, cheating on his wife, cheating on his current girlfriend but sure, he is going to stop with you.
This is going to end in tears and they are not going to be his.
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