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His Gf is blaming me. What should I do? I tried telling him to back off and leave me alone

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Question - (17 May 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 23 June 2011)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I am still getting mixed signals from my best friend.

I tried telling him to back off and leave me alone but that didn't work since he gets full on and will almost amount to behgavior that is like to stalk one until one has forgiven him. When I want to talk to him I can't, without being looked at funny, since he knows I love him.

He has a girlfriend they been going out for a while and are rocky and I'm getting blamed by his gf because I hang around with him a lot.

This whole situation is just messy and upsetting, here I am stuck between a rock and my best friend whom I'm in love with and all I want to do is be his friend and talk to him but then he will randomly ignore me or start flirting like crazy

What should I do

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A female reader, angelDlite United Kingdom +, writes (23 June 2011):

angelDlite agony auntyou need to tell him to stop overstepping the mark with you because all you want is his friendship. if he cannot accept this then he is not a suitable friend for you. i am not surprised his girlfriend is not happy! she can obviously see that he has feelings for you, fancies you or whatever. and yes, unfortunately she will blame you coz it hurts her less than admitting to herself that her boyfriend is chasing some other girl

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