A
male
age
30-35,
*zsonni
writes:Hello World!So here's the situation:I am fat, which is a physically unattractive thing but that's it, I'm too weak to lose weight. Besides my physical disability, cause it is one whether you accept it or not, I am a very humorous and entertaining young male specimen.I had 2 girlfriends in my life, my first gf was with me only because she wanted to get near one of my friends, who has a huge success among ladies, and the second was a long relationship of almost 2.5 years which I ended myself because I had more intense feeling towards another woman who regarded me only as a friend.That was the time when I decided that I will be myself let it be rain or snow. My concern is, since that time I never had a girlfriend, no matter how I tried. I have various other problems, which together with this one has cause me to regret my very own existence... I know this may sound depressed but I am not actually like thatSo my problem is, that every woman I meet and get close to can only regard me as a friend, I know I should be a jerk cause that way I would have way more success but that's just not me, and as I said, I won't give up who I am.What could I possibly do? And please leave me alone with everything will be okay one day, cause that's not what I'm interested about, I hear that every time from the girl FRIENDS of mine.With regards,dzsonni
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2011): Hey bud!
Head up! Look im 6'4" 240... slightly muscular and grew up in the states. Women hated me! I was too nice, respectful, kind, generous your typical stupid hey lemme pick up your tampon for you to save embarassment... all good traits right? Well, apparently MOST want a guy who will be an asshole and pick up a screaming kitten and throw it off the f***ing balcony til it lands on someone's fiery grill. Well, not me! Its not looks usually man, its your attitude. For myself, I wasnt gonna let my environment change me... I packed up my shit and moved to a different country. This was one reason, not the entire package of why I left. Your confidence is low I dont blame you. In fact mine has been low for so long Ive paid escorts just for company and holy f***ing hell man has that ever felt good. A $ sign makes everything so much easier sometimes with women, so much easier. They dont care about being friends, your personality, your weight, any of that... honestly, ive had better experiences with escorts more so than womenly friends and relationships when it comes to taking them out and being respectful towards them. Its like you can be whoever you want and they wont judge you or label you! Why? Cause they have no emotion invested into you and could care less... they just want your respect and thats it. In return, they give you a kind smile, an ego boost, and maybe a little fun in the process lol.
My advice is this: Maintain who you are. Youre meeting the wrong women. Eat healthy for yourself and try exercise itll help with your mood incredibly and give you a boost hopefully. Hopefully where youre at women dont care about the size of your d*** cause most women do im not kidding regardless of what they say on this board. Get pills. Surgery. Do whatever the hell is necessary to make yourself feel good again. No one can judge you man. Its all about yourself so do as you wish. Youre a guy who is dying for affection right now, like myself. Again, do whatever is necessary to do fill that void even if its temporary. Just so you know someone will indeed give you the time of day no matter how you achieve it, it doesnt matter. My advice tho is not to involve alcohol with the brod simply cause its a depressant. You dont want that right now. Good luck pal keep us posted.
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