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writes:i went out with this boy for 4 months but one of his best friends liked me so once me and my ex was over me and his best friend started going out but we had to keep it in secret because his two friends hate me and they were going to fall out with him because of me. They thought we were going out so they convinced him to go out with this older girl and he doesnt even like her he says he still loves me so we started going back out in secret again, but he use to say he loved me all the time and now it seems he doesnt seem to bother as much? Am i just overthinking about this? It was him that asked me back out and he says he still loves me but sometimes it feels like he doesnt love me as much anymore?
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reader, spinnaker  +, writes (23 February 2010):
 Are you dating him or his friends? Your relationship should not be a popularity contest. Though if several friends do bring up a valid point or objection it should be taken into consideration. 10 people can't all be wrong about the same thing, you know.
HE needs to man up either way. He needs to be open with his relationship with you and if they are really his friends they will be give guidance and support.
Conversely you should watch what you do so as not to damage his relationship with people important in his life. You can do or say things and not even mean it...just be careful and think twice.
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