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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey.... I really like this guy but i dont think he likes me because i used to date his best friend and i broke up with him and he told the guy i like that im mean and im an idiot and stuff like that and i think he believes him.. I have known him since i was 5 and we were really good friends but now his frend has ruined everything.... How do i prove to him that all the things his friend told him are not true???...... Any suggestions???
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2010): Yes, it is a code among friends, never go out with their ex, especially if your friend has any feelings about it at all. Harsh as it may sound, you don't need to be dating this guy's best friend.
You don't have to have a boyfriend at all you know, you can try to become friends with both these guys and make ammends to the one who apparantly thinks you were mean to him. Find out why, and if you were, apologize and then move on with your life with your head held high. Learn from your mistakes and go on with your day.
You are a kid, go have some fun and stop agonizing over some boy, he's not worth it.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (16 July 2010):
I don't think he would go out with you anyway. He'd see it as stabbing his friend in the back. This is one you need to let go. Nothing will come of it. You can try to prove it all you like, but if he's a good friend, he won't go out with his best friend's ex.
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