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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Sorry, this might be a little long. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 5 months. There's this girl that he use to hook up with. They stopped talking about 6 months ago and about a month ago she texted him asking to hang out. He told her no that he had a girlfriend and she dropped it, so I thought. Turns out she's been bugging him since then to hang out and hook up with her. She even tried to bribe him saying they could have a 3 some with another girl! This is really starting to bother me and I've said it to him before. How do I make him realize that I don't even want him responding to her anymore without sounding like a whiny insecure brat?
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (9 December 2010):
 I think you ought to focus more on WHY he is still talking to her knowing how uncomfortable and insecure it makes you feel.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (9 December 2010):
 You really can't just tell him to stop talking to her. I know that I would want to give this girl the respect of a response. Maybe it amuses him to hear all her sugestions. You have to trust him that he will not give in to her temptation and that he is just waiting till she goes away because he does not want to hurt her.
He knows that you do not want him talking to her but he sounds like too nice of a guy to just tell her to piss off. Give it some time and trust him. In the end you really have no grounds to say who he can or can't talk to even if you don't trust the girls you have to trust him.
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