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writes: One of my guy friends is VERY flirty. We used to be FWB a few years back. He has a reputation of being a "dog".The thing is, even though we no longer sleep together, everytime i see him he always finds an excuse to touch me. He never shuts up about my boobs and gets a hard on from a hug!He was also quite sexually aggressive and liked it rough a lot. He wanted anal and things like that.I honestly think he might be a sex addict because he's obsessed with touching and flirting.Are there any sure signs that a guy is a sex addict?
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reader, Abella +, writes (9 December 2010):
thank you for the follow up. Puts this guy into an entirely different category. Now i know he has a girlfriend but is also asking other women for it i revise my answer to: He's a player. He likes the chase. Very poor ''boyfriend'' material. Though I can't say addict. Since that makes me think of persons with drug issues. But he certainly does get at buzz from chasing women. And may love doing that, that he'll enjoy doing so for the rest of his life. Sort of man a smart woman avoids if she ever wants to settle into a happy committed exclusive relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe has a girlfriend at the moment actually. I don't meet up with him because of that but i sometimes see him when out with friends etc... When he's not with her he basically chats up any woman he can. He asked someone i know to go back to her place a few weeks back. She declined his offer. Seriously, he tries it on with pretty much any female.
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reader, Abella +, writes (9 December 2010):
He's tactile and remembers you, is that a good sign for you? Do you still desire him? Tell him how you feel. Or maybe he really loves women, all women. And touches every woman he meets. Maybe he loves connecting with woman, has a high sex drives, loves remembering connecting with any woman he meets and still remembers? Maybe he is easily aroused. But addict? Is he propositioning a woman all day every day? Does he never have a relationship longer than a few weeks, days or hours? Or does he just enjoy celebrating the presence of women in his life? Addict
sounds such a put down.
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reader, LazyGuy +, writes (9 December 2010):
You had a fwb relation with a guy known to be a dog. If he is a sex addict, then what is the woman who joins in for it?
Last time I checked, it takes two.
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