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writes: My boyfriend and I broke up in March. I'm trying to get over him, but every time I see, he stares at me and follows me. He told me when we broke up that he was unreliable, and his mom claims that night he cried all night because he broke up with me. He doesn't call, but whenever I see him, he has a look in his eye like he's hurt. Does he still like me, and what should I do to get him to talk to me?SignedUtterly Lost And Confunded
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2006): Well he definitely acts devastated by the breakup, however it's kinda weird he acts like this, cos 99.9% of guys hate showing their feelings. So, even if he is really sensitive, it shows that he feels very hurt by the breakup, and more to the point, it shows he still loves you a lot, cos otherwise he wouldnt feel so deeply affected by it if he didn't love you. He has definitely got it bad for you, which is quite sweet i guess.
In this situation, he's obviously burning for you, and it will only be a matter of time before he comes back to you, and he will probably spill all his feelings to you, and then you will most probably both fall for each other again, due to the heat of the moment, and such(only an estimated outcome!)
If you still have feelings for him, and he still wants you, the last thing you want to end up doing is pushing him away. This sounds obvious, but what i mean is you might give out some negative signs and stuff without even realising you're doing it, things like pained face expressions and such, just be aware, and try to look eager and appreciative when you see him. If you build the positive vibes up, you're sure 2 be going dwn the right path. I would suggest that talking to him directly might embarrass him, or put him in the spotlight, so i would also avoid that :)
hope it all goes well:):)
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reader, Little_Laura +, writes (5 July 2006):
 Men are wierd!! I think you should go around to his house when you know he's going to be in and ask to speak to you. If hes still in to you he wont say no. You need to find out about how unreliable he is. Surely if he knows he's unreliable he knows how to change it.
Hope this helps xxxx
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