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writes:hey um.. This is kinda awkward for me. I've never done this before, liked asked a question like this.I'm really inexperienced and this guy I'm with knows every trick in the book (if you get my meaning). I'm worried that I'll put him off becuase I don't know what I'm doing. I've spoken to him about my concerns and he's promised to take it slow and he has lived up to his word but I'm still really worried about it. I mean I've barely even kissed properly, just a peck on the lips and that's it.My last boyfriend dumped me straight ater because he said I was a terrible kisser but I didn't know what I was doing. It was my first kiss. Someone please help me. I'm really worried. Thanks in advance for the advvice and thanks for taking the time to read this. xxx
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reader, kellyO +, writes (5 July 2006):
 Hi dearie, my advise for you is that you should try and relax when he wants to kiss you. The attraction and chemistry will lead you on and it will come naturally. Dont try to force it.
They are a tonnes or reasons why the last kiss didnt flow. Could be from him and perhaps there isnt any chemistry there.I can sense from your posting that you really like this guy and he does like you too for him wanting to be understanding and promising to take things slow. So dont want and allow the effect of your last relationship spoil this one. If at all your ex-boyfriend really did care about you he wouldnt leave making you think you are a bad kisser.
Take care and Goodluck
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (5 July 2006):
 When they start out, *no one* knows what they're doing, so don't be put off by his experience. After all, your boyfriend had to learn from someone, right?
And don't assume that not knowing how to kiss is a dumpable offense, either. Most likely, your last guy wasn't happy for some reason, and used that as a -- very lame -- excuse.
When it looks like you and your new BF might kiss, just tell him that you're a little nervous and ask him to go slow. He'll probably enjoy the role of mentor if he knows you're new to kissing.
Remember that you don't have to do anything you're not ready for, so don't get into any situations where you'd feel uncomfortable. Having said that, let him guide you in kissing and remember what you enjoyed, so you can try it on him later.
Have fun!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey thanks for the advice its really good i feel better already :) thanks for responding so quickly
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reader, sammie +, writes (5 July 2006):
 hya hunni well i think you dont need to worry i think it all comes natural and it depends on who you are with to how you kiss i say dont worry about it and go with the flow and it will all be ok this other guy he might of been the bad kisser and you are good so he blamed you no wot i mean lol anyway hunni honestly dont worry about it it will be fine and it will be good hope this helps ya samx
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