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writes:I'm a virgin and the fact that my boyfriend has .. A lot of experience intimidates me a bit. I'm eighteen and he's twenty-one and lost his virginity at fifteen. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2010): Just make sure that your boyfriend is a good boyfriend to you, a good friend.
You can't learn without doing.
Sometimes you learn badly by doing it.
Some people have had lots of sexual partners, and are lousy lovers and can't maintain relationships, other times its that way even if someone is an inexperienced lover.
It's all over the place, that's the human condition.
Make sure that you get pleased, and that he works to please you, not himself, and the reverse should be true as well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2010): When I was 16 and a virgin I was going out with a 20 year old whom had alot of expirence with other women and lost his virginty when he was 16
I told him about my fears or being compared and he understood how I felt we spoke about it for a while and waited until I competely felt ready and when I was ready it was pefect sure it obvioulsy wasnt the best he had had but he said he didn't care that night was about me
and I'm sure your boyfiend will say the same you just need to discuss it with him first
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reader, LuckY_DirtY  +, writes (1 December 2010):
 He is such an honest guy to admit about losing his virginity.I normally lie about my virginity & act like a virgin to my girls,who are virgins,whom I hooked up with because virgins demand virgins and there is no way for them to tell if Im a virgin or not.Most of us men(not all) are like that.Besides having sex at the age of 15 isnt so bad. Mine was 14!(frankly)..The bad thing 's that my intentions towards my girlfriends were different since that day.I then treated my girlfriends & anyone who had crush on me like my sex toy.I fucked them,broke up with them,got a new babe. .and so on. I could never treat any girl with real Love.. But recently I find someone really honest and who understands about my life..so I dont want to cheat on her again..and blah. .blah. .etc. .
But that is not the most important thing...To make sure that he is honest,he has the right intentions towards girls(you) and that he is not cheating or playing on you over other hot babes 'right now' is more important.
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