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female
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30-35,
*113yx8
writes: So, I met this guy about 2 months ago. Since the day we've met we been talking every day. I really like him so far and he seems to like me aswell. We only hungout once, we went to the movies and he paid although i didn't want him to, he insisted. Anyways I either ask to hangout or hint at it and he's always busy with something but really he just can't be that busy ALL the time.. Then he'll say things to me like "I want to see you" but I don't understand because he has plenty of oppertunities to. And its not that hes genuinely busy with work or something because he only works at night if i ask to hangout before that he'll say something like "I actually have alot to do" or "I'll be sleeping then" but its not like I nag him to hangout I'm not like that at all I just kind of want to know why he doesn't seem to have an interest in hanging out yet talks to me everyday... Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (2 December 2010):
Maybe he is trying to let you down gently? Its hard to tell, what you need to do is stop asking him to hang out and dont text him or call him. If he contacts you then yea text him back or answer the phone but dont you start off the contact, time will tell then if he is truely making an effort to talk to you. Goodluck.
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