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writes:So I use to go out with this guy for 2 months. Then we broke up and later on he got with this girl but then they broke up. During the time that he was with that girl, he would still try to contact me and try to keep it cool with me. So once him and that girl broke up, we started talking again. We don't want to rush it into another relationship so fast, so we're just talking for now but it turns out that his ex might be pregnant. He tells me that he doesnt love her and he's not going to get back with her. He's just going to support the kid but he still wants to be with me and I've made comments to him about maybe he should get back with her but he says no. That it wouldn't work out between them and blah blah blah. So if she is pregnant, should i still keep seeing him or should I just let it go?
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reader, BadAsh6705 +, writes (17 January 2008):
 I can tell you from personal experience that you should not go back with this guy. Not that he is a bad guy, but he is not taking this seriously right now and you don't know what will happen if it is confirmed that she is pregnant and further on in the pregnancy if he will feel different.
I was in almost the exact same situation- dating a guy for the second time around and he found out his last girlfriend was pregnant who he did not get along with at all.
Guess where he is now? Raising his new baby girl with his soon-to-be wife and step-daughter.
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reader, always.you +, writes (11 January 2008):
 if you really love him then yes you should not let that stop you atleast he is being a man about it
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (7 January 2008):
 The question is "IF" ,so hypothetically if she is confirmed pregnant then he should solve his problem first .
If you date such a man , he will not be able to give all of him to you.Would you be satisfied with half a man?
If you don't want any potential problems in your life, choose someone who comes clean and squeaky.Don't buy tainted goods for you won't get to enjoy it.
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (7 January 2008):
 Let it go. He comes with too much baggage. He needs to focus on taking care of the child (Assuming it is his). Stay away until you know for sure it is not his. After that, do not trust him with the birth control, as he is obviously not responsible enough.
It has NOTHING to do with his feelings for his ex. It has EVERYTHING to do with his OBLIGATIONS as a father, that he is refusing.
-Frank B Kermit
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