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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:there's this guy whom i really love ,n i thought that even he loved me, we even kissed but he dint propose me neither did I..but now since many days we haven't spoken he's trying to ignore me when i asked the reason , he said that his dad had read sum sms which i'd sent n told him that he should not meet any girl and concentrate upon his studies ryt now....i really dont know whthr that's the only reason he's avoiding me...i dont know what to do..i'm unable to concentrate in my studies....plz help :(( Reply to this Question
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reader, nnamm +, writes (26 November 2007):
Hi,
I think he is avoiding you becoz he knows that u r very serious about the relationship.Since u like him a lot.......have a chat with him personally about ur feelings....tell him that we can be friends.....give him some time.....still nothin works out....then just forget bout him....u 've done ur part....can look for some1 who wud understand ur feelings better.....and foremost dont neglect ya studies becoz of him....becoz practically it is useless to ruin yourself for him if he has no feelings for u.U r still in your teens....u've a long life ahead of you...treat this as an experience and move on if it doesnt work out....it is hurtful......and i'm sorry it happened to you.......take care and all the best
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reader, hugs2muchgal  +, writes (26 November 2007):
 I would believe this guy. You are a teenager in India and I assume your guy is too. Indian parents are normally quite strict when it comes to schooling and dating (trust me I know) so the idea of a father wanting his young son to focus soley on school is not far fetched.
Talk to the boy about how you feel, but if you really care about him you should wait until it's okay for him to date.
Best of luck,
Hugs
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reader, love-him  +, writes (26 November 2007):
 Hey hon, you need to talk to him to find out if this is the only reason and if it is, you need to respect his decision on wether he still wants to date you. I hope you are ok and i wish you luck :) Feel free to mail me about anything x
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