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anonymous
writes:I've been with my boyfriend almost 4 months, and we're getting on great. But he's having some problems with his ex - she's pregnant with his child, due in January, and she's trying to stop him from seeing the child etc. When he was with her, he told me she changed him, but he's said that since he's been free of her, and got with me, he's getting back to his old self.Two days ago he was trying to talk to her, and she ended up basically saying she wouldn't care less if he was to die. He was obviously quite unhappy, and was talking to me about it and told me that 'he thought he was back to his old self but she has well and truly broken him'. He alo went on to say how 'before he could have a laugh, but now it feels so fake'. I understand this was probably because he was miserable, but ever since then, when I'm with him the only thing I keep thinking of is him saying it feels so fake. I know he wasn't talking about us, and I know that he really does love me etc, but I just can't shake those words from my mind. Am I overthinking it? Should I leave it for a few days, and probably forget about it or talk to him?Any ideas/advice will be appreciated, thank you.
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