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writes:Hi,Ive been here before for different reasons. Now I have a new question. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years now. We live together and we have a box of condoms next to our bed. Well, yesterday I was cleaning up and when putting away his school bag I realized he had 8 condoms in there. I automatically broke down in tears as I was alone since he was visiting his mom. Now this guy barely likes going to school. He skips a lot of classes as he only has class on Thursday afternoons. Back in the begining of February he had planned a trip for us to go to Atlantic City. I do remember him saying he was going to start packing. He then cancelled the trip because of money issues. So yesterday when I confronted him about the condoms he calmly said they were there because when he started packing for our AC trip he had put them there because he was planning on taking his laptop and he figured the pocket there was easy to grab. Now he does not always carry this bag with him. Only sometimes when he is bringing his laptop to work or when he is going to school. I am not sure if I can believe this or not. He swore to his family and all the friends he lost in the marines that those condoms he put in thre when he started to pack for our trip. I did find it strange he packed 8 when we were only going there for a weekend and he is not one to have more than one shooting in a day. However he said he was planning on us having lots of sex since it was our first getaway. I do not have any other to suspect cheating. I've checked his phone and Haven't seen anything suspicous. However, I have been cheated in the past by my ex and now my current bf he has lied to me about smoking before so it is hard for me to truly believe him. I need help. Is my suspecion good enough to break things off? or is his explanation something I should believe? Please guys help me. I really love this guy and he is not the type to hang out or anything so I am extremely shocked and confused at the thought that he may be cheating on me.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (12 March 2013):
 If you have to ask strangers on the internet what to do, then there is a major trust issue here.
Are you unable to take hormonal birth control? That to me would be the only reason after a 2 year committed relationship you would still be using condoms.
IF you don't trust him, you don't trust him and it's hard to rebuild trust...
so you have found nothing on his phone
no emails to an from strange women
he's not hiding stuff from you
only you can make the decision as to whether or not to trust him....
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reader, Confused_26 +, writes (12 March 2013):
Confused_26 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI guess yes we can say my trust is not there. However, it is a bit confusing because I lost trust in him because he's lied about quiting smoking and some people tell me that is different bc its an addiction. However, how would I know in 48 hours if he is cheating? He could just be doing this once ina blue and not every other day as he is always home except when in school or work.
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