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age
30-35,
*otmoney13
writes:HEY!!!!! HAPPY HALLOWEEN!!!!!!! well uhm that guy, he told me yesterday that he had a surprise for me. and today we had a rally and he performed for the LSU club. he got really close to his partner, and after he asked me if i liked my surprise.......uhm.... did he do this to me because he knows i like him, or what? i just got incredibaly pissed off and completely iced his shoulder(gave him a heavy dose of cold shoulder) today so did i have a right to be mad or am i beiing paranoid? because it hurt deep whe n he danced infront of me, i sat at the front of the bleechers, and it hurt...... really bad...so yeah i'm kinda worried what'll happen between us on monday... HELP!!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, dearkelja +, writes (1 November 2008):
 At your age, there is still a lot of game playing and no-one is brave enough to come out and say what they feel.
That being said, you don't have to settle for game playing. It's always best to be up front and honest. If you like this guy and you think he did this to make you jeolous then when you see him, don't be mad, mean or hide from him. Simply go up to him and say (in a non-threatening way) "your performance at the LSU club was great. Too bad you're taken cuz I could really go for a guy like you." Then just be yourself be nice to him and move on.
It sounds like he is used to game playing and if you give him the cold shoulder you're playing right into his hand. If you say the above and remain approachable he wont be so apt to play games with you. If you continue with the cold shoulder it's like a chess game and his next move is more game playing.
Just be honest, be yourself and if he really is with the other girl then find someone new who wants to be with you. Half the heartache in life is because we waste time feeling bad over someone who doesn't want to be with us and really how joyous is it to be in that situation?
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