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writes: I am in a 3 year relationship, we are high school sweet hearts. In the beginning it was difficult to have a relationship mainly because we were young and didn't know what we wanted. well we started growing together and have come to be unseperable and see a future together. I am 2 years younger than him and it seems to be a problem every now and then. Yet this is not my problem. I'm afraid that he's not in love with me anymore. every time we have an argument, it always comes down to giving each other our stuff back. We work through it but this time it feels like is really over it. He tells me he doesn't need this stress in his life. I made a joke about flirting with the girls at his new job and it turned into me being insecure about our relationship. I just don't know if i should just leave, or stick it out and hope things get better. I don't expect us to be our happy selves after just fighting the night before but just not sure if he really wants to stay in it or is he pushing me away so he doesn't have the guilt of calling it off. Cause we do have a really good thing and so many people see it in us, its almost like we have to prove differently.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2005):
Love should be simple yet often peoples make it so complex like drama on TV.
I dont know the reason to that. My advice for you is to sit down with him
and talk it all out straight up. Obviously something is up if you guys argue
and get back together again and repeats the same cycle. Love isn't a
tug-a-war game. Sit yourselves down and discuss it out openly what is going
on in the relationship rather one hanging on the balance of it. See how deep
the relationship is for both parties since one might have a different
opinion. Ultiamtely based on those facts both will have to reach a decision
as to give it another shot or just move on with their own lives. In
relationship talks most peoples are sensitive on the subject such as
cracking a joke about other girls. Mainly love is all about trust and
conversations. If talking about other girls or guys is what making this
relationship difficult then try avoiding those kind of subjects or actions
that would lead to an uproar.
I hope my advice proves useful to you and may you find the guiding light to
the answer you seek~
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