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How to break up with violent man?

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Question - (28 November 2004) 3 Answers - (Newest, 23 February 2010)
A , anonymous writes:

I am having a hard time breaking it off with my boyfriend of 3.5 years. He is potentially violent and avoiding him does not seem to work. He shows up every where I go and ends up knocking on my window in the middle of the night. I try to keep his temper at bay by agreeing with him. He always asks if I am his girl. I say yes because I am afraid he'll do something bad. Last year I wrote a note, not a nasty one either to break up. Ther next day I went out to my car and all but one tire had been knifed. Later he admited he had done it. Much later he paid me for the damage because I kept bringing it up. He has a drinking problem and it's getting worse. How do I break it off keep the peace? Please help and in advance, Thank You. Happy Holidays!

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A female reader, ashana21 Canada +, writes (23 February 2010):

my mother went throu just talk to him, and keep a phone in ur hand so it's eaiser to dial 911 if nessasary, but if the damaging thing continues, u might wanna get a restraining order

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2005):

Keep out an eye for him. If he comes near by your house, phone the cops and tell them you are being harassed.

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A male reader, harshbutfair United Kingdom +, writes (20 April 2005):

harshbutfair agony auntTell your male friends what is happening. Call the police. Get people to look out for you.

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