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writes:Dear Cupids,I am 21 years old and have only had 2 sexual partners in my life and to be honest i didn't have a lot of sex with either of them. the first was when i was 18 and was only with the guy for 3 months, the second was a male friend earlier this year. they were both kind of average sized in the trouser department but my new boyfriend..i kid you not...is massive! 8 inches to be exact. i almost died of shock when i saw it. i didn't even know they made them that big! i'm terrified of sleeping with him, even though he's gorgeous and sexy and i want him so bad...that is going to hurt! and about oral sex...god i just dont even know where to start! is there a way to do this without bleeding, or being in agony or choking to death on a penis?! hehe
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2006): I hope you dont take this the wrong way but 8ins isnt really massive try 13 ins!! that makes your eyes water!
He must be thick around the penis, dont get me wrong 8ins is still a very big penis but dont worry you should be able to accomadte him easier than you think. and you proabably wont bleed at all, and by the way I kind of enjoy the feeling of having a large penis inside me, its a nice kind of pain if you know what I mean!!.
anyway have lots of fun and dont worry about the blow job thing my hubby is about 8ins and thinks hes got a small penis! but I manage fine in that department.
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reader, Luvjns +, writes (5 November 2006):
You sound like me nine years ago. I was twenty-seven. I had no idea they came in an extra-large. I mean it looked like and extra leg. So, I avoided sex for a while until one night we were at his place. I decided before I came over that this would be the night. I was all dressed out in heels, garter, and all. I had a few drinks to give me a little added confidence and I went for it. It was the best sexual experience I ever had in my life. I never knew that I could actually feel so "connected" to a man like that. That night was wonderful....but after that night, I must admit, I was a little sore for a while. After healing from that initial night, it was smooth sailing. He is a little bigger than your boyfriend, if that is any consolation. In fact, I enjoyed sex with him so much I married him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2006): I have a different opinion, 8 inches is not that huge. Be sure to take time to get fully aroused through foreplay and get well lubricated, the vagina expands to accomodate a 7 to 10 pound baby, come on it can handle an 8 inch penis just fine....that said, there are differences in women as to the length of the vagina, if he does not fit then that is just the way it goes, but does not mean you cannot have an enjoyable sexual experience with each other...
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2006): Your fears are realistic. Think of how you'd cringe seening a Great Dane mounting a toy Poodle. You aren't cringing because of the discomfort the Great Dane will experience. Of course, I could be completely wrong. Perhaps every woman needs a lover from Land of the Giants.
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reader, Sexybum +, writes (4 November 2006):
 Heya I can give you some advice for this situation...
As for the oral sex you have nothing to worry about The most sensitive part of a mans penis is the top of it. Anyway you don't have to fit it all in at the same time you can start from the bottom side ways on (do you know what I mean?) and then work your way up rather than just trying to do it from the same angle.... and anything that your mouth can't cover your hands can make up for!
You need to try a position that allows you to be in control of the depth otherwise he will hurt you!!! Doggy style is a big no no until he gets to know you..... If you go on top there are many different positions you can try it doesn't have to just be missionary and then you can control the situation which will not only build your confidence with him but also allow him to get to know which depth suits you.
Last but not least if you need ideas for different and suitable positions than take a trip to Ann Summers and see if they've got a book that can inspire you...
Goood luck and congrats on the new man ;-)
Sexybum xoxoxoxo
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