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writes: I am really attracted to this guy, he is a mate of one of my friends, hes 27, a bit of a ladies man and extremely attractive.Im not sure what i want from him at the moment, but some attention wouldn't go a miss!!Im 19 myself and i know this guy through my friend who is also a guy. This male friend of mine likes me, although he knows nothing would happen between me and him as he is my ex's best friend, but i feel as though he is slightly jealous of me finding his friend attractive. He does know i also find him attractive however.Yet i feel maybe he is trying to keep us apart? And i dont know what to do about this-as the only time i get see '27yrold' is when my friend invites us both out-which is very rare since hes found out i like him.I need some advice on how to make this '27yrold' notice me more, and take a real interest!!
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reader, x +, writes (7 November 2006):
x is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your advice.
I have actually found someone better! And he is absoloutly gorjus, he is stunnng to look at and gr8 company!!-but want to keep my options open, and to be honest-im only after this '27yrold' guy for a bit of fun!
Nothing serious!!! As i have just come out of a 3 yr relationship, im not the jealous type anyway so would never have a problem with him looking at other girls, but do want the attention still, do you know what i mean??
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2006): Do you really want the heart ache of being in tow of this 'ladies man'?? If he looks at all the ladies now and you get him to look at you and maybe one day go out with him then how will you feel when he looks at other 'ladies'. He might look and sound great, but remember they can be the hardest to tame. I think you should sit back and wait and maybe someone even better might come along. Take care.
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