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anonymous
writes:So me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2 years, we've have a great sex life up to the last 2 months, when I would put on the moves and he would brick wall me, we've recently moved in together (in the last month for college) and I've enjoyed being tied up, now I'm kind worried because out of the blue he ask me to struggle during sex, like I didn't want him to touch me, I thought it was odd but did it anyways, when I did it he was much more excited then he had been in a long while. Should I be worried or do most men ask for this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2011): Hi
This is a pretty common fantasy for both sex. Ask yourself do you like that as well ? If you are ok with that as well that's cool however i strongly suggest that you talk about it and fix boundaries, what are your limits, playing that game could be sometimes dangerous, it is a game and while playing well you/he maybe with the excitement may not be sure what still is the game or not if you see what i mean.
Do not forget safe sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2011): oh lol, i see why you're worried, but no. you shouldnt be.
its just a fantasy, infact, that would rather turn me on too, just thinking about it, you sound like you have a pretty interesting sex life, enjoy it.
SO NO IT DOESN'T MEAN YOUR BF IS A RAPIST. DON'T WORRY. :~D
(only 99% sure though, maybe he could be a rapist..)
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