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*irgodream
writes:Why do men pull back with no contact after a fantastic weekend. Fairly new relaionship, my guy so full on telling me how special i was and wanted to be serious with me. Then nothing, cancelled date as he wasnt feeling well and nothing..Should i make no contact? Reply to this Question
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reader, virgodream +, writes (17 June 2010):
virgodream is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you all for your knowledgable answers. I know you are all right in the advice you have given. Once again thank you allxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2010): It could be several things. He may have pulled back because he gave a lot emotionally, and he needs a chance to pull back and recoup his resolve, if so just leave him a lone for a week or so and if you don't hear from him, you can call him and check in, but don't get angry at him when he does call you, even if he takes a week or so...welcome him back.
That said, why aren't you dating other men? From the sounds of it, you don't yet have a serious relationship or an exclusive one, he didn't ask he sort of left that vaugue which is kind of manipulative on his part.
Time will tell I am afraid.
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reader, AuntyEm +, writes (16 June 2010):
 Well maybe give it a week to see if he makes contact...If he does then all well and good...If he doesn't then I wouldn't bother chasing as men tend to not respond to that.
Sorry it turned out like that for you...another guy won't treat you that way...so don't break your heart xxx
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reader, Sagittarius1  +, writes (16 June 2010):
 DO NOTHING it is him who is acting weird so let him contact you first please i can't say it enough do nothing now . . you had a great weekend together and maybe he really is not feeling well. Try and keep busy with other stuff and forget him for a while. see how you go. good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2010): no,dont contact. if he`s interested he will contact you.
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